Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Today, I compared abortion to a couch

Hi.

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5 comments:

Colleen said...

I agree. Back when I was single I had no intention of ever discussing that decision with the guy in question. And, luckily - and because I had adequate access to contraceptives and condoms - it never came up.

The biological relationship thing is lost on me. I am 1000 times the mother to my (non-biological) daughter than her biob*&^% has ever been, and we all know it. I wish SHE could've given away all her rights way back then.

Anonymous said...

Amanda, in your previous post you made reference to "the sandwich joke." What is the sandwich joke? I have never heard of it.

Amanda said...

Anonymous-- the sandwich joke is pretty simple-- it's just a guy saying something like "go make me a sammich". It seems like it's used in arguments to remind women that as women, their role is to serve men, not argue. Most guys I know who've used it will argue that it's just a joke to shut down debate and doesn't really mean anything sexist-- and I'm willing to give them that for a little bit at least-- but it adds up over time. Having every debate, political, philosophical, moral end with a guy saying "that's nice, now go make me a sammich" is incredibly frustrating and annoying.

I've seen it on internet communities too, though there it seems to be a response to figuring out that a poster is a woman.

MipMip said...

«And shockingly, no one was offended. I think. I hope.»
This show how far the western civilisation is morally bankrupted and a culture of death.

James A. Donald said...

I favor the system employed in the early Roman Repubic, where the paterfamilias could "abort" any dependent of any age, including his wife.